I'm in the stage of pulling my hair out!!!!!!!!

This poroject is not going so well right now. I cannot think of any interview question that I would ask a person that was in an abusive relationship without hurting their feelings. Also I don't have anyone to interview yet, so if anyone has any suggeations on who I could interview that would be very helpful. Also my foundation questions are not going so well either. I am starting to get sick of coming up with questions that i don't think would make my point to any teens that would understand my topic.